How to Give a Talk that Engages the Audience

How to Give a Talk that Engages the Audience

“We are a new women’s networking group in Geneva and would love you to talk for 40 minutes about your career in communications”, says Valentine Honoré, the founder of the Curiosity Club.

My first reaction was, do I really want to talk about myself? The second, was do I have anything to say? And my third, 40 minutes is far too long.

You would think I would jump at the chance of talking to this group of women. But I have spent most of my professional life not talking about myself. I have always been most comfortable when asking questions as a journalist, or conference moderator, speaking on behalf of an organization or training people to speak in public or to the media!

Although the invite was out of my comfort zone, I thought it would be good to put myself in the shoes of the clients I train and coach in public speaking. They often tell me that they are also uncomfortable talking about themselves even though they know that personal stories help people connect.

Below are some tips and techniques on how I went about telling my story.

The audience is King (or in this case Queen!)

The key to impactful public speaking is making it audience centric. I thought about what this audience of mostly career women in their twenties to forties would want to hear that would be useful for them.

I divided my talk into the three main phases of my life – journalism, public relations and current career as a trainer and moderator. For each of these I came up with a life lesson that I felt would help these women advance their careers. For the record, my key messages were:

• Being good at your job is not good enough. You need to network.
• Be true to yourself. If you are not feeling empowered, leave your job!
• Know your own value, particularly when negotiating salaries or fees.

Storytelling builds connection

I illustrated the key messages with personal stories so that they would be memorable. Some of the stories were humorous or at least self-depreciatory, some revolved around unusual twists of fate and others were more poignant such as incidents of gender discrimination and worse. I wanted to be honest about the ups and the downs.

I added some insights on the state of the media, the rise of celebrity news and the spread of disinformation – subject areas that I have some expertise in, and some strong opinions!

Opening with impact

The Curiosity Club had chosen a great venue – le blé noir restaurant at La Comédie de Genève – the city’s premier theatre. I started with a few remarks about the reasons for my theatrical voice and a story about my short-lived career treading the boards.

At the start of a talk or speech, you should connect with the audience, by speaking about where they are at physically, mentally or emotionally. My theatrical voice had opened professional doors for me and I thanked the Club for opening their doors and inviting me to talk about communications in an ever-changing world.

Speaking without notes

You have much more impact if you speak directly to your audience, without any notes. I am always asked what you should do if you forget something. I always reply that the audience doesn’t know what you are going to say so won’t notice.

However, you can maximize your chances of not forgetting a key point if each point builds logically on the next. For example, I talked about covering the death of Princess Diana in Paris and this led me onto the challenges of being a female reporter and producer in an era where men filled most of the foreign correspondent roles in the BBC.

It helps too if you have a clear structure. I chose a chronological one from past to present.

Owning the stage

The stage was small, but I decided I would make every step count. I started and ended in the center. Stage left was my time as a journalist. Stage right my time in public relations and I moved between the two to illustrate a number of challenging transitions from journalism to public relations and back again.

Keeping to time

I had practiced and rehearsed my talk – saying it out loud like an actor as that helps the words stick. I thought it would be around 30 minutes, but in fact it was 37 minutes, as I responded to the reactions of the audience, and threw in a few more questions and thoughts as they came to me. This makes it sound even more natural and unscripted.

Still, 37 minutes is very long. TED talks are now a maximum 15 minutes, down from 18 minutes, no doubt to cater for people’s shortened attention spans. When I coach TEDx speakers, I usually advise 10 to 12 minutes. We all overestimate an audience’s ability to focus on what we are saying.

Amazingly, Curiosity Club members are, as their name suggests, innately curious and I asked them to tell me if they lost interest at any point. No one said they did, but remember we are in diplomatic Geneva!

It was however a lot of work to write the talk and deliver it without notes, even though this is what I do for a living.

Sitting still while moving forward

is the mantra of the Curiosity Club – an organization that works towards gender equality. The club holds meetings all over the world for women who want to exchange ideas, inspire each other and network.

I failed to network sufficiently at the start of my career, and only started when I set up my business. It is not something I now have a great deal of time to do, but networking with members of the Curiosity Club in Geneva was highly enjoyable and didn’t feel like work at all.

What Makes a Great Interviewer?

What Makes a Great Interviewer?

Did you watch Emily Maitlis’s interview with Prince Andrew about his relationship with the convicted pedophile Jeffrey Epstein? If not, did you see the wonderful film that has just come out – Scoop – about that interview?

Emily excels as an interviewer. She enters each conversation well prepared, focused and with a clear idea of how she wants to steer the conversation. Her strength also lies in her ability to listen to deepen her understanding and ask probing follow-up questions. This blend of preparation and flexibility is one of the reasons her interviews are so compelling.

You may not get to interview a member of the British royal family – few get that opportunity. However, her approach and techniques are worth observing, if you are asked to conduct an on-camera interview for your organization or company.

Over the past few months, I have trained a number of people on how to interview their CEOs, members of senior management teams or technical experts for videos to be posted on the company intranet, website or social media platforms.

My top five tips are:

Know your purpose. What do you want to hear from your
interviewee that is of interest to your audience?
Have a clear flow in mind. You need to have a logical
structure so it is easier for the audience to follow.
Be curious. You know where you want to go, but you have to
listen actively so that you can clarify if something is unclear or
unexpected or probe with a follow-up question.
Practice reverse engineering. You may have submitted your
questions to the interviewee ahead of time, but you need to sound
and appear to the audience as if this is the first time you have asked the
question. Audiences check out when they feel an interview is scripted.
Ask questions that elicit an emotional response. You will
find that questions that ask how the interviewee feels about something or
about what he/she has seen are the ones that are usually the most memorable.
These are often best asked spontaneously so that the response is natural and
heartfelt. You can always decide later whether to use them in the final edit.

Question techniques

Broadcast journalists are great interviewers as they interview day in and day out either for soundbites for a report they are doing or live on-air. Live interviews are the most challenging as you have no opportunity to retake the question and have to quickly link between the answer you receive and your next question to ensure a seamless conversation.

Here are some examples of what to do or not do from two broadcast journalists, who were interviewing Philippe Lazarini, the Commissioner General of UNRWA.

1. Don’t ask long open questions or multiple questions as the answer will be very long.

https://vimeo.com/manage/videos/975311481/privacy

You can see that the question was almost one minute and elicited a two-minute 30 answer!

2. Do intervene for clarification, for example, if the interviewee uses an acronym, jargon, or assumes too much knowledge.

https://vimeo.com/manage/videos/975322903/privacy

You are asking the questions your audience wants asked so put yourself in their shoes.

3. Do ask a question that is personal and emotional, such as this one about whether it is hard to separate your feelings from your job.

https://vimeo.com/manage/videos/975320466/privacy

This answer is often the one that is most memorable/quotable.

4. Do have a strong final question, as you want to leave the audience with something memorable. If you flag up this as the final question, you help the interviewee focus on giving a great response, as Philippe Lazzarini does here.

https://vimeo.com/manage/videos/975326437/privacy

Journalists are looking for strong newsworthy answers, although sometimes it can be more important to ask a key question the public wants answered even if it doesn’t elicit a great answer. However, when you are interviewing for PR purposes, your job is to get the best possible answer from the interviewee so they come across as credible, knowledgeable and empathetic.

A former BBC journalist in London, Brussels, Berlin and Geneva, Claire can help you become a great interviewer if asked to conduct an on-camera interview or to ask questions off camera for your corporate video. Contact her at claire@doolecommunications.com

Tips from a Masterful Media Communicator

Tips from a Masterful Media Communicator

People often ask me who excels at talking to the media. My answer is Philippe Lazzarini, Commissioner General of UNRWA – the UN Palestinian Relief Agency that employs 13,000 people in the Gaza Strip, and runs schools and social services.

Lazzarini has one of the most challenging jobs in the world, made even more difficult since the tragic events of October 7th. Currently, he is banned by Israel from visiting Gaza, and his agency is not allowed to deliver much-needed food to the North of the strip where famine looms. Israel has also accused a dozen UNRWA staff of involvement in the Hamas attacks on Israel – allegations that remain unsubstantiated. 189 of his staff have so far lost their lives in the conflict.

Yet he remains cool, calm and collected when questioned by the media about those allegations, the effectiveness of the relief operations or the plight of the Palestinians.

I have analyzed some of the interviews he has done with major international broadcasters, Al Jazeera, Sky News and BBC, over the past six months, with a view to illustrating some of the techniques he uses that make him such an excellent interviewee.

1. Rebuts unfounded premises/charges – In this Hard Talk interview on the BBC in November last year, he held firm against Stephen Sackur’s renowned inquisitorial questioning. ‘

2. Avoids words that are loaded for you – In this interview with James Bayes from Al Jazeera in December, he avoids the trap of blaming the Israeli army for war crimes but reframes the question and makes the point about the need to respect international humanitarian law.

3. Keeps to his area of expertise

In this interview with Yalda Hakim of Sky News in March, he is asked why there is no political will for a ceasefire. He does not get dragged into answering on behalf of Israel or Hamas but voices his concern about food being used as a weapon of war.

4. Redirects questions to where he wants to go

James Bayes asks him if he is angry about the plight of the Palestinians, to which he replies that he is angry about the indifference of the international community and makes the broader point about a loss of humanity.

5. Talks about the impact on people

In this interview with Al Jazeera, he focuses not on UNRWA but on the people of Gaza, relating stories of their plight and what they told him when he was able to visit them.

6. Keeps on message throughout

Throughout all these interviews with BBC, Sky News and Al Jazeera, he takes control by staying on message and delivering it clearly and compellingly.

At the end of his interview on Hard Talk, he is asked whether the Israeli offensive could lead to the mass displacement of Palestinians from their homes – similar to the Nakba of 1948. Have a listen to his answer.

Unfortunately, his fears in that interview appear to be proving correct, with more than 1.9 million Gazans currently displaced, and the offensive on the city of Rafah underway.

In this type of sit-down interview done by star presenters, you have longer to get your message across than in a short news interview. However, all of the techniques mentioned above as well as the many more I share in my coaching and media training workshops are effective and can help you become a great media communicator – just like the head of UNRWA Philippe Lazzarini

In May last year I trained the UNRWA senior management team in how to effectively talk to the media.

If you would like to be coached or attend a media workshop online or in-person, contact me for a discovery call. As a former UN, IFRC and WWF International spokeswoman and BBC correspondent, I not only give you the authentic interview experience but also advise on how to get your message across.

Keeping the Show on the Road

Keeping the Show on the Road

One of the key roles of a conference moderator is making sure that everything goes smoothly. Whatever happens, the show must go on, and the only person who can ensure this is the moderator who has the microphone.

Nothing as dramatic has happened to me as the famous incident back in the 1980’s when BBC newsreader Sue Lawley carried on reading the news when activists stormed the studio – one handcuffing herself to a camera and the other crouching below the newsreader’s desk!

However, here are a few conference shockers that I had to deal with and ensure the show went on…

The rollercoaster of technical chaos: At one event, we were eagerly awaiting the keynote speaker’s wisdom, only to be met with the dreaded “failed to connect” message not once, not twice, but three times on day one. The organisers refused to ask her to pre-record her remarks for day two and, predictably, day two didn’t fare any better! Again, we twice tried to connect, but our speaker remained elusive, leaving us hanging without a single word of her anticipated keynote.

But wait, there’s more! As we attempted to patch in speakers from every corner of the globe, it seemed like the universe conspired against us. Five consecutive no-shows! It was like a virtual game of hide-and-seek, and we were losing spectacularly.

Thankfully, amidst the chaos, the Secretary-General saved the day in the studio. With the lines in limbo, I seized the opportunity to pepper him with questions, keeping the show afloat amidst the technical tempest. Lesson learned: Always have a trusty sidekick in the studio, or risk being left high and dry, counting down the minutes— a lifeline we gratefully clung to later that day.

Although not before a high-level speaker who was moderating a panel failed to get her microphone working and with a few minutes notice, I had to moderate a discussion I knew little about while she apparently looked on highly frustrated.

Comedy of errors: A client decided to skimp on tech support, only allocating a measly half-hour for a two-day extravaganza. Cue chaos. As fate would have it, I found myself in a heated exchange with an online speaker who seemed convinced I was playing a game of mute-and-seek. “Unmute yourself!” she demanded, blissfully unaware that I was at the mercy of Zoom’s audio settings. The back-and-forth, or should I say, the dialogue of the deaf, dragged on endlessly, with no technician in sight to untangle the mess.

Lesson learned: When it comes to technical support, you can’t afford to skimp. Ideally, the moderator should be equipped with an earpiece, ready to receive guidance from the producer or director lurking behind the scenes. But when that fails, it’s time to whip out plan B: enter the WhatsApp group, a lifeline of communication when all else goes haywire.

Shocking panelists

Professional moderators know how to keep calm and carry on during the event. Unfortunately, though we have little influence over who is on stage with us.

Here are my top three shockers:

1) 10 people on a panel about putting beneficiaries at the heart of humanitarian response with only one beneficiary on the panel.
2) 8 male ambassadors – a manel – in which the organisers insisted I scripted the questions. Not one I have on my showreel.
3) 3 heads of international organisations talking about high-level humanitarian policy with 1 woman from a small local foundation, who had nothing to contribute apart from saying that she was listening and learning. She had been invited by the organisers who wanted to have a partnership with her foundation.

You will notice I published this blog on the 1 April – so how many of these do you think were April Fools?!

Event Organisers, Heed Your Moderator’s Counsel

Event Organisers, Heed Your Moderator’s Counsel

Someone asked me this week to explain the role of a panel moderator.

I replied that it was to facilitate an insightful discussion for the audience. Remember them? The most neglected part of an event except when organisers panic the room might not be full.

Unfortunately, engaging debates are sometimes very difficult to achieve when you are brought in at the last moment and the panelists have already been selected by the organisers for political or PR reasons. It is like trying to bake a great cake with the wrong ingredients.

Drawing on decades of experience and a lot of patience, I usually manage after speaking individually to each panelist to construct a flow and exchange between the panelists, that is engaging and insightful. Of course, the discussion is compromised in terms of depth as I have to loop in people who either don’t want to address the theme of the panel or don’t have the knowledge to do so.

There seems to be a view by some organisations – the more panelists the merrier, as this shows how well-connected and influential, they are. However, this leads to frustration all around – from the panelists themselves, who have less time to get their points across, from the moderator who has to keep the discussion at a relatively high level and the audience, who most probably have learned nothing they don’t already know.

Of course, some audiences also just want to say they have attended a conference and don’t care what was said. But many I speak to say they don’t like self- promotional panels where the speakers only talk about their organization and don’t engage with the theme of the panel. This may be the reason why organisers tell me audience numbers are down for both in-person and online events.

In my view less is more. Conference organisers should spend their time organising insightful audience-centric events where they involve the panel moderator from the start of the process.

Most professional moderators, like myself, have a broadcasting background. For many years I produced, presented, and edited programmes on BBC radio and TV. We can help you find the focus for your event, develop pertinent angles, and provide ideas for creative innovative, and interactive formats that will engage the audience, give them great new insights, and enhance your reputation and visibility.

Claire Doole moderates events and trains people in how to moderate and design engaging audience centric and insightful events and panel discussions.